Safety tips

Create a password exclusively for use on Jossylad.com. Let your password contain at least eight, and preferably random, characters; including uppercase and lowercase letters, at least one random number, and at least one symbol (e.g., +, *, =, @, #, <, etc). If you write it down, hide it away. And never disclose your password to anyone. If you are registered on Jossylad.com and another person registered on Jossylad.com asks you for your password, report for scam immediately the message in which the request is made.
If you are registered on Jossylad.com and another person registered on Jossylad.com, who you have not met in person, asks you for money or valuables, outside of Help!, report for scam immediately the message in which the request is made. So that you don't fall victim to, eg, an advance-fee fraud or a romance scam.
If you want to meet another user face to face for the first time, meet them face to face during daylight hours, in a peopled public place from which you can freely walk away. Tell some family or friends where you are going, who you are meeting, and when you will return; or, better still, bring some family or friend along.
Arm yourself with online safety information. See OnGuard Online, Online Safety.